Fannish Love
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dwgmSome of my earliest memories, beginning when I was three years old or so, involve falling in love with stories and characters from television, movies, and books. My head has always been filled with stories about the characters I love, from Yogi Bear & Boo Boo, Lassie, Bonanza, My Favorite Martian, King Arthur (inspired by Richard Burton in Camelot), The Beatles (on seeing A Hard Day’s Night), High Chaparral, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, The Lord of the Rings (the book), Star Trek (the original series), Star Wars, McCaffrey’s Dragonriders of Pern series, Miami Vice, Phantom of the Opera (Michael Crawford RPF, omg!), etc., to my obsession of the last four years, Pirates of the Caribbean.
Growing up, none of my friends seemed to share my fannish tendencies, and it wasn’t until I began looking for further Pirates adventures on the internet in late 2003 that I discovered that I was Not Alone. Reading others’ stories or sharing my own, it’s been an amazing experience, more fun, more satisfying than I ever imagined possible. I’ve met, both online and off, so many wonderful people, and each of them has at least that one thing in common with me: Fannish Love.
Fannish Love is a very real thing, as long as it lasts, whether it’s weeks, months, or years. Fannish Love is particularly intense for those of us who write. We spend many hours, countless hours, with these characters, composing stories in our heads long before they are pounded into a keyboard and appear on a screen. These stories, these characters, are important to us in the same way story and myth have always been important to people. They speak to us of our human condition, in words that reach our minds and hearts.
Additionally, there is no one correct interpretation of a story or character. There are many variations that can fall within the parameters of canon. Sometimes a majority of fans will agree on various points, but that doesn’t mean that the minority view is incorrect, and sometimes views are as diverse as fandom itself. The one thing all views have in common is that they are more or less dear to the hearts of their proponents, and because of this, friendly discussion of them is acceptable, but acrimonious debate or intentional ridicule is not.
Fannish harmony is a truly joyful thing, because we do care so much, but conversely, fannish discord hurts, and takes the fun out of participation in fandom. Just as in any human interaction, the feelings of others must be taken into consideration, and civility should be the order of the day. Unfortunately, whether it’s meta, comments, or even author’s notes, the “anonymity” of the internet encourages just the opposite. One may feel fewer constraints regarding content, tone, and language, resulting in messages that may be misinterpreted, or interpreted all too accurately. When one creates negative energy, damage is done. And as these instances multiply over the course of time, harmony is destroyed.
Whatever you write – stories, author’s notes, meta, comments, whatever – let it be written out of love. Love of the characters, the stories, and your fellow fans. We’re all in this together, as diverse as we are. Let’s be good to each other, civil in debate, gentle in criticism, respectful of each others’ likes and dislikes.
And if all else fails, remember what Thumper’s dad said, savvy?
~.~
Growing up, none of my friends seemed to share my fannish tendencies, and it wasn’t until I began looking for further Pirates adventures on the internet in late 2003 that I discovered that I was Not Alone. Reading others’ stories or sharing my own, it’s been an amazing experience, more fun, more satisfying than I ever imagined possible. I’ve met, both online and off, so many wonderful people, and each of them has at least that one thing in common with me: Fannish Love.
Fannish Love is a very real thing, as long as it lasts, whether it’s weeks, months, or years. Fannish Love is particularly intense for those of us who write. We spend many hours, countless hours, with these characters, composing stories in our heads long before they are pounded into a keyboard and appear on a screen. These stories, these characters, are important to us in the same way story and myth have always been important to people. They speak to us of our human condition, in words that reach our minds and hearts.
Additionally, there is no one correct interpretation of a story or character. There are many variations that can fall within the parameters of canon. Sometimes a majority of fans will agree on various points, but that doesn’t mean that the minority view is incorrect, and sometimes views are as diverse as fandom itself. The one thing all views have in common is that they are more or less dear to the hearts of their proponents, and because of this, friendly discussion of them is acceptable, but acrimonious debate or intentional ridicule is not.
Fannish harmony is a truly joyful thing, because we do care so much, but conversely, fannish discord hurts, and takes the fun out of participation in fandom. Just as in any human interaction, the feelings of others must be taken into consideration, and civility should be the order of the day. Unfortunately, whether it’s meta, comments, or even author’s notes, the “anonymity” of the internet encourages just the opposite. One may feel fewer constraints regarding content, tone, and language, resulting in messages that may be misinterpreted, or interpreted all too accurately. When one creates negative energy, damage is done. And as these instances multiply over the course of time, harmony is destroyed.
Whatever you write – stories, author’s notes, meta, comments, whatever – let it be written out of love. Love of the characters, the stories, and your fellow fans. We’re all in this together, as diverse as we are. Let’s be good to each other, civil in debate, gentle in criticism, respectful of each others’ likes and dislikes.
And if all else fails, remember what Thumper’s dad said, savvy?
~.~
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Date: 2008-05-07 03:42 am (UTC)I've chosen a fiction route that is far from the accepted norm and is far from being the broadly accepted. My finger hovered over the 'delete' button more than once (still does) because I was so tired of trying to swim upstream. Just admit the emperor has no clothes an all will be well.
Ultimately, I made the conscious decision that I loved what I was doing, had farrrr too much time involved to just erase it, and just leaving it on a flashdrive seemed even more counterproductive.
I'm not out to save the world, convert, or evangelize. I'm venting some creative juices in a direction I enjoy, and have found a select few who have chosen to join along. I'm good with it! I've stayed in my little niche, and it's been nearly a year since I was told to take my fic somewhere else because it was inconsiderate of me to expect people to have to read such stuff.
Not to say I haven't had to repeat this mantra to myself on a regular basis, just as a gentle reminder, but it's been my road to peace.
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Date: 2008-05-07 03:53 am (UTC)I'm blunt and that's considered mean. But I'm not changing that for anyone. Even though I do like that you're diplomatic and erudite and handle your frustrations differently. (And though I don't comment often on your ongoing story, I do read each part. I'm just horrid about WIPs, especially tense parts. I like those parts to be OVER and Teh Happy to pick up again. *G*)
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Date: 2008-05-07 01:31 pm (UTC)I've become a firm believer in the lurkers, the ones that are reading but not commenting (either out of time, wherewithall, fear, whatever....)
Yeah, blunt can seem mean, sometimes. However, I don't think open honesty is the issue here. We've been forced to tip-toe around the spoiled cousin too long and we're all suffering for it.
(BTW: Sorry for the tense parts. I promise, no character deaths, but it is pirates. I'll take strength in just knowing you're out there.)
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Date: 2008-05-07 02:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-07 06:50 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-07 04:09 am (UTC)That has to be the first priority of any fanfic writer. We're not getting paid for this, we just want to read and write the best stories we can. Maybe a hundred people share your vision, or maybe a handful, but if the story makes you happy, that's what matters.